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Cougar Confessions; Lessons Learned From a Female Lech

I've never been a "Cougar". I despise the term. It is not a compliment for me to be compared with a jungle animal. And yet, I am here today to tell you my Cougar Confessions. The first time I was called the name by two barely legal teens, I was walking along the...

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Nasty, Vulgar, Dirty Bars

I secretly love bars with nasty, vulgar, dirty names. Perhaps it's because I'm always trying to be the "good girl"; not swearing like a sailor (at least, not in front of my mother), not dancing on tables at clubs (anymore), not dating twins (although if I WAS guilty,...

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Skip the Boring Drinks Date & Hang With Some Hookers

  If your dates this summer have been a bit boring, perhaps you should skip the typical drinks and a movie date and hang with some hookers.   I don't mean you should hire a high-class escort (at least not on your first date), but lately mainstream movies...

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Hurricane Irma Destroys World’s Favorite Airport

Hurrican Irma has destroyed the world's favorite airport! As a travel blogger, I have visited every single country on my bucket list. However, there was actually an airport on my list that I'd always been fascinated with and only recently was I finally able to see it...

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My Favorite Sites for Cheap Flights

  Lately, there have been so many new airline discount sites and apps popping up that looking for cheap flights can get overwhelming. But don't worry, I'm going to share with you my favorite sites for cheap flights.   There are a few websites that I always...

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Secret New Spot Brooklyn Hipsters Haven’t F*ed Up Yet

  I've been coming to Dean Cafe Bar (951 Dean Street, Crown Heights, Brooklyn, NY) since it opened a few weeks ago. I love it here, mostly because this secret new spot is one of the few places in my hood that hipsters haven't f*ed up for me yet. We have a few...

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Who Am I?

Hi! My name is April. I love romance and I love travel.

Over the past 30 years, I’ve had the opportunity to visit and live all over the world. During my travels, I met hundreds of couples who fell in love and were exploring the planet together. I, too, have dated (and for several years, was married to) a man I met abroad.

Today, with the huge explosion of online dating sites you no longer have to hope that you might meet someone at your local coffee shop; your soulmate can be anywhere in the world! 

 But this site isn’t only about my journey to find love; it’s a place where singles and people in relationships can share their stories about romance and travel, long distance love, solo traveler safety tips, travel hacking, budget tips and tricks, and “catfish” confessions where people share their embarrassing yet often hilarious experiences with online dating disasters.  

If you're seeking more passion and romance and you're filled with wanderlust, join us!

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Nasty, Vulgar, Dirty Bars

I secretly love bars with nasty, vulgar, dirty names. Perhaps it's because I'm always trying to be the "good girl"; not swearing like a sailor (at least, not in front of my mother), not dancing on tables at clubs (anymore), not dating twins (although if I WAS guilty,...

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Kinky Accommodations?!

  There are plenty of romantic hotels you can visit if you're looking for that kind of ambiance, and cheap motels for something a little...dirtier. But what if you're looking for something in between, something...different?   If you're far away from home and...

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The World’s Best Sex Museums

  If you're an adventurous traveler with a kinky alter ego, skip the Metropolitan and the long lines at the Louvre and do some real exploring at the sexiest museums around the globe. The world is full of giant penises sculpted more lovingly than Michaelangelo's...

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Top 10 “Nolo” (No or Low) Budget Travel Tips

  Google "budget travel tips" and you'll get thousands, perhaps hundreds of thousands of articles to choose from. But the word "budget" is relative. I remember reading Lonely Planet and Budget Travel as a child and realizing that my family was poor because our...

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Weekend Warrior; 7 Tips for Mini Trips

Weekend Warrior While I was a student I spent several semesters abroad. I lived in Egypt, India, and Jamaica, and traveled to other countries in between. Once I graduated, I found myself traveling much less, even though my income had increased. I had many excuses;...

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Foreign Flings; Staying Safe While Hooking Up

Virtually every online travel site, magazine, and guidebook offers tips on travel safety for solo female travelers. Wear a wedding ring. Carry a picture of your "husband". Wear a hijab to cover your head in Muslim countries and don't look Arab men in the eyes. Don't...

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